Why is it that we always think that we are right, that our ideas are the correct ones and that our memories are the ones that matter? Why can't we see things, at least sometimes, within the viewpoint of the other(s)? Why do we think that as long as we feel something, it is correct and there's no other way to feel it? Why are we so...one-sided and blind to the other(s) and care about our own needs, feelings and thoughts. And in expressing them do not take others into account. Why is it that what we think is always the most important one?
Most of the times, things are not black and white. There are always shades of gray, as long as we choose to notice them. Something that makes us happy can hurt others and that's how things are. We just have to learn to grasp the others better and consider that in doing something we like or deem correct and proper we might impact others (either in a positive or in a negative way).
However, it's never easy to grasp how others see it and how something we do or say may affect them. Coz in the end, we are only human, we make mistakes, and people forgive us. Or not. Whatever we do, we must always be ready to face the consequences of our actions. Because complete freedom always comes with complete responsibility.